Back in the day I wanted to go see the Oprah show but it was never the right time. I just thought she would always be there but then her live studio show went off the air and that was that – I’m sorry I waited

Has that ever happened to you?

You waited and then time just …passed? Too much time. Too fast. Without you realizing it?

Every day is a new day to make new choices, to experience your life and yourself in a new way

It’s how I choose joy, even in the face of things not looking exactly how I thought they would by when they should

And yes some people were “born that way” but for others, even you, it can be learned

For the past six months I have been taking a deep dive into the art of pleasure

I dug deep into my pockets but even deeper into my soul to find a place where I am actually in awe of myself and the woman I have become, and how I get to show up for myself, and how I get to show up for my 12-year-old daughter (who will learn everything she knows about being a woman from me)

It’s how I went out publicly wearing a little more than bra and panties, owning every inch of my gorgeous, womanly, magnificent body, as it is and as it isn’t

Gone are the days of apologizing for myself, my scars, my veins, all the flaws, real or imagined, that I hid behind and used as excuses for not being enough

I rediscovered flirting, remembering that I am the golden ring, not the booby prize, that I am not Ma’ambut Madame who is in full ownership of her juicy power

Women, if you have lost sight of who you are, you still have 100% of your juicy, delicious lives left!

Will you join me in the joyful life revolution?

The keys are:




This is your time to choose you, in all of your glory

This is your time to remember who you are

This is your time to remember how you get to do your life

It’s a freaking revolution, and I am confident that your life will never be the same

First 10, then 20, then 100, then 1000, then the world

One of my mentors began teaching tiny groups in her small brown stone, and I knew about her but at the time I thought

“who me?”

“I don’t know.”

“Maybe some other time.”

Now 20 years later I’m in a room with 900 other women and I wish I hadn’t waited

Small groups are everything

Claim your spot now!

Own your magnificence before 20 years passes (Or Oprah’s live show is over)

time goes so quickly

let’s talk